Balancing the relationship within also is acknowledging the light and dark sides that we all have. Yes, I said we all have a light and dark side. Our light and dark sides are the favorable and non-favorable characteristics that we sometimes don't like to recognize. It's actually important to recognize them.
When we are able to keep ourselves balanced on all levels, reaching the balance of our own relationship then relationships with others become balanced and in tune. Another advantage to balancing ourselves within is allowing the increase of our vibrational levels. Increasing our vibrational levels is a positive action which brings more positivity into your world. Higher vibrational levels also will expand on those who resonate on the same level and you will notice more people entering your life who are like minded.
So embrace your own masculinity and femininity! It's very advantageous!